018 The Complexities of Caregiving with Ronda Thorington LPC

In this episode of inSight Out, host Matthew Reeves sits down with Licensed Professional Counselor Ronda Thorington to discuss the often-overlooked emotional landscape of caregiving. Ronda shares her powerful personal journey of navigating her daughter’s rare autoimmune diagnosis and the "aha moment" at the National Institutes of Health that led her to specialize in supporting caregivers. Together, they bridge the gap between general medical complexity and the specific experiences of families living with low vision and blindness.

Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of "vicarious trauma"—the emotional toll of witnessing a loved one’s struggle—and how to manage the "time offset" of grief within a family. Ronda provides a compassionate framework for moving past the labels that can rob us of our humanity, emphasizing that neither the caregiver nor the care recipient should be defined solely by a diagnosis. This conversation is a masterclass in maintaining individual identity while navigating a shared disability journey.

The episode also introduces practical tools from Ronda’s "Resilient Parent Toolkit," including how to set micro-boundaries and reclaim a sense of "new normal" through structure and routine. Whether you are a parent of a child with vision loss, a partner providing support, or someone living with a diagnosis who feels like a "burden," this episode offers the language and the permission to prioritize your own mental wellbeing.

Topics Covered: Caregiving, vicarious trauma, chronic illness, low vision, grief cycles, identity beyond diagnosis, family communication, curiosity in relationships, medical trauma, pediatric illness, resilient parenting, self-care, invisible disability, and mental health advocacy.

Reach Ronda at (860) 533-0912 or rthorington@rtparentcoach.com. Download the Resiliant Parent Toolkit: www.resilientparentconsulting.com

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inSight Out is your podcast home for living well with vision loss. Host Matthew Reeves (LPC CRC NCC) is a legally-blind psychotherapist and rehabilitation counselor specializing in helping people thrive while living with disability. Matthew is licensed in Georgia and is a nationally certified rehabilitation counselor.

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